The biggest challenge of spending time in a new country is rebuilding the systems that make you feel like yourself again. We've now arrived in Hanoi! One of the first things we did was rearrange the furniture in our apartment so we could recreate the routines that matter to us. I've always been a person of routines. Meal times. Deep work. Sessions. Exercise. They all have a rhythm because these systems support the way I think, work and organise my family and profes

A few days ago, a dear coachee of mine said something I didn’t expect. “Dilek, you're not just a career or leadership coach for me. You helped me design who I am personally and professionally, and I want to thank you for these soul talks!” I felt genuinely happy hearing that. Because it captured something I care deeply about, the idea that our work is not only about what we do, but also about who we become in the process. There is a version of you forming at work. Throug