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When Plans Change: How to Stay Capable in Uncertainty
For months, my family and I had been exploring a significant possibility for our future. We researched, visited places and compared alternatives until an idea started feeling like a plan. Then, circumstances changed. Something we had deliberately prepared for became uncertain. Disappointment came first. Then frustration and anger. Was the plan delayed, changing or disappearing? I simply didn't know. After writing about moving towards our goals in Da Nang and arriving somewher
Aug 193 min read


The Person Who Arrives Is Never the One Who Started
I've always wondered whether the destination waiting for us might be very different from the one we imagined when we first began. Last week, I wrote that rhythm carries us from where we are to where we hope to be, one small step at a time. But what if reality turns out to be richer than we imagined? Ba Na Hills gave me my answer. Before we went, I had done my research. I knew we would visit the famous Golden Bridge, and I knew there was a French-inspired village on top of the
Aug 103 min read


Rhythm: The Space Between Goals and Habits
Last weekend, we spent four days exploring Da Nang, Hoi An, Ba Na Hills and Hue as a family. I left each place with a different observation about human performance! This article is the first of four reflections inspired by that journey. Like most family trips ours too began with some chaos, flight schedules, hotel check-ins, keeping two teenagers happy, deciding what to see first, adapting to a new city, and trying to make the most of four short days. By the end of our first
Aug 64 min read


Perspective Architecture: Designing a Bigger Reference Frame
Mountains have never really been my happy place. Give me an endless coastline, the sound of waves, or the horizon, and I instantly feel at home. Until Sapa. Walking across a glass bridge above the clouds and standing on Vietnam's highest peak, I experienced something I had never quite felt before. My heart felt more open. My mind felt quieter. And suddenly, the problems I had been carrying no longer seemed as heavy. The problems hadn't changed. My reference frame had. Problem
Jul 293 min read
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