While sketching ideas in my notebook when I was reading our new selection in Book Insider Book Club  ‘Designing Your Life’; a thought landed with surprising clarity: we rarely design our lives the way an architect designs a space. We decorate , we adjust , we patch , but we rarely take a blank sheet and ask:  ' What if I could design my life again, how many versions could I create?’   Research from Stanford’s Life Design Lab and behaviour science shows that people stick to lo