When I look back at 2011, I see a version of myself standing in a life that felt suddenly unfamiliar. A new city. A new language. A new hat of motherhood. A new identity I was not yet prepared to inhabit. It felt like waking up inside a house whose layout had changed overnight. I was moving through rooms I no longer recognised.  And I remember wishing, deeply, that someone would show me how to set a direction and move forward on a map with clarity.  If you’ve ever felt unsure